Kathy Davis
Utrecht University, Netherlands
Kathy Davis, Institute of History and Culture, Utrecht University, Janskerkhof 13, Utrecht 3512 BL, Netherlands Email: K.E.Davis@uu.nl
Lorraine Nencel
VU University Amsterdam, Netherlands
Transnational migration has transformed most European countries, making the problem of how to ‘integrate’ an increasingly popular topic
in public debates and social policy. It is assumed that as long as the newcomer learns the language, adapts to the local customs and finds work, s/he will be integrated and welcomed with open
arms as a full-fledged member of society. Based on an autoethnography of our experiences as US-born, long-term and fully ‘integrated’ residents of the Netherlands, one of Europe’s most
multicultural societies, we have explored some of the subtle, well-intentioned practices of distancing and exclusion that are part of the fabric of everyday life. We will show how, contrary
to the official discourse of integration, ‘Dutch-ness’ as a white/ethnic national identity is continuously constructed as a ‘we’, which excludes all ‘others’. And, indeed, we have discovered
that, paradoxically, the closer the ‘other’ comes to being completely assimilated into Dutch society, the more the symbolic borders of national belonging may need to be policed and
tightened